What a strange thing LOVE is... "Loving someone is like holding a butterfly in one's hands... Hold it too tightly, and the butterfly would feel controlled... Hold it too loosely, and it's easier for the butterfly to fly away from the grasp of your hands..." It's never easy loving somebody, and wishing that his love would be yours forever... Who doesn't want a happy ending with the one we love, right ? But truth is, nobody's perfect.. and there's no such thing as a "perfect relationship"..and that's the reality of it... I once saw an old couple sitting on a bench at a park one fine day...and I was so touched by what I saw.. They really looked blissful and happy just being together..and me, I just stood there and just kept admiring the blissful couple sitting in front of me..perhaps they realised that I was looking at them, that they stood up and sniled at me, walking away, hand in hand... I envy them... I wonder what's their secret in having a lasting relationship... I wonder if I could ever get to experience the bliss and happiness in a relationship, just like the old couple... So.. What's your secret to a perfect relationship..? =))